Sharing Katherine May’s piece “How to keep a writer’s notebook”

Oh, how I love Katherine May’s books. Discovered during the pandemic, I plowed through Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times, resisting the urge to underline the whole book. After that I read her earlier book, The Electricity of Every Living Thing: One Woman’s Walk With Asperger’s, then recently finished her latest, Enchantment: Awakening Wonder In An Anxious Age. Resting, walking, wonder — favorite topics so wonderfully and honestly explored in her hands.

I also subscribe to her podcast and Substack. I’m pretty sure I’d subscribe to her grocery lists if she published them. Big fan, is what I’m saying.

All this to say that I keep meaning to share her Substack post titled “How to keep a writer’s notebook,” which starts this way:

Yesterday, when I sat down at my desk, I couldn’t find my notebook. The panic that brought: without it, a part of my brain was missing. It wasn’t that I wanted to find information in it – instead, I wanted to write in it. A stray piece of paper wouldn’t do. I needed, in that moment, to add to that particular collection of words, to find the relief of disclosure.

The rest of this thoughtful piece is chockfull of notebook wisdom and has inspired me to record more than I already do. God knows I have enough notebooks. I want to be looser, more-in-the-moment, less focused on to-do lists (though I will always write those) and more on capturing moments, little scenes, life’s comedy and drama, snippets of conversations. (I just mistakenly typed “conversayions,” and I think that might be a better word!) Doing more of what Katherine talks about here:

Your notebook exists to capture your creative life in the broadest possible sense. It exists because your memory is never quite as good as it should be. Get everything down as soon as you can, while it’s still in your mind. Bright ideas have a terrible habit of dissipating if they hang about too long.

I want to fill these pages…

And these…

Then maybe use the contents for SOMETHING. Or maybe not. I at least want to capture life, even if it isn’t for an honest-to-goodness “writing life.”

Great piece, I think. Can you read it without subscribing to her Substack? I hope so, but I also encourage you to subscribe either way.

I’ll ask what Katherine asks, how do you use your notebooks? I’m curious.

11 thoughts on “Sharing Katherine May’s piece “How to keep a writer’s notebook”

  1. Hi Mary!

    Since you asked…
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    These are my last 3 years of notebooks and planners that hold (almost) everything in written form!

    There’s lists – can’t live without those
    Journaling
    Logging of info
    Quotes
    Stapled papers when I didn’t have the notebook near
    Color coding-must have
    I change the ink color daily to visually separate the info-must have
    You name it and it’s there with gazillions of sticky notes that work as the Index
    Each one is numbered in sequence and shows to from and to dates.

    Cheers!
    Ana 🥰🌻🐘
    Sent from my iPhone

  2. Hi Mary.
    This is a great read! I loved May’s Wintering and Enchantment. I have yet to read The Electricity of Every Living Thing (it is next up in my TBR pile). I’m currently re-reading Robin Wall Kimmerer’s Braiding Sweetgrass as I plan to attend her talk at Clinton College in two weeks.
    Anyway, I have SO MANY notebooks going. One is a daily journal (have not missed a single day since 1/1/2020), one is a commonplace book. Another is a Bucklet List type notebook for my big adventures in four years when I retire. One notebook is for my “Worry Log” (I got that idea from you – thank you!). Another one is my “W.o.W.” book – Words of Wisdom (various quotes that resonate with me). These are my current notebooks.
    Thanks for sharing!
    Liz

  3. I also love Katherine May’s writing, and this piece has really gotten under my skin. I used to always carry a notebook and scribble random stuff in it throughout the day. Somewhere in the past 10 years, I have gotten out of that practice, even as I started publishing my fiction. I’m trying to figure out if it coincides with my adoption of the Bullet Journal system, which keeps me more organized but maybe changes how I feel about my notebooks? Does using these tools for organization make me approach them with a less creative mindset? Do I want them to be more orderly than they used to be? I’m trying to figure out how to get back to letting my mind run free on notebook pages.

  4. I’d just started “Wintering” when I saw your post. I already know that it’s going to resonate with me so I enjoyed your thoughts – and appreciate being pointed to her podcast which I didn’t know about, thank you. Love the notebook covers, especially “Mostly Just Whining”! Best wishes.

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